An open mind is rare these days. Many people make up their minds before even hearing another position. It’s become increasingly common to respond with the first Google posting that supports your position without sifting through the arguments. Search engines aren’t driven by truth. They are often driven by advertisement profits, algorithmic biases, and programmer’s political priorities. We often don’t hear the strength of opposing arguments.
This fosters an echo chamber where bad arguments flourish. Here are some reasons why it is good to hear an opposing argument:
- Understand Concepts Better
- More Empathetic
- Hearing Opposing Arguments Makes Your Position Stronger
- Prevents Triggering
1. Understand Concepts Better
Reason involves searching for truth, not scoring points in a debate. Often, we create a weaker version of the opposing argument in order to more effectively attack the position. This argument is the straw man fallacy. This does not properly represent an opposing argument.
Hearing the real argument lets you learn about the position. You may learn something that you have not heard before and understand the concept better. You can sharpen the quality of your position or modify your position when the evidence shows that you are wrong.
2. More Empathetic
Beneath people’s positions is usually a life experience. People rarely arrive at a position in an empty vat. Learning about the opposing argument and why someone may adopt the position makes you more empathetic to the position. (It also makes you far better at keeping friends).
Take for example Obama Care. A person who is for the legislation may have lost their job or needed to leave the job market to help a sick relative. Providing free healthcare could have been beneficial. Perhaps, even lifesaving.
On the other hand, take a person who is against the legislation. They may have spent twenty years of their life running a one-person business. If they made too much money for subsidies and are still relatively poor, the legislation could have substantially hurt them. Their premiums could have gone up over $1,000/month for their family for substantially worse care. This could force the person to take another side-job. This could result in the business owner needing to work 60+ hours/week for worse care while someone who is not working gets free care. This would seem unfair.
Understanding people’s life experiences helps you to understand their positioning and help craft a more knowledgeable foundation for your position.
Julia Galef from the Rational Speaking podcast provides a great explanation on why saying “I just can’t understand how anyone could think. . ” shows a lack of insight into other’s opinions. She thinks it’s either lazy and disingenuous. She suggests the phrase is condescending and shows a lack of imagination.
3. Hearing Opposing Arguments Makes Your Position Stronger
The best way to make a strong argument is to make the opposing argument as strong as possible. This makes you comprehensively understand the topic to sharpen your expertise. This also forces you to address and show error with all the opposing points. If you can successfully show why all the opposing points on a strong position are not correct, you can be confident that you have the stronger argument.
4. Prevents Triggering
Regularly, hearing an opposing arguments helps prevent your blood from boiling. Simply put, you can control your temper better.
Everyone thinks that they are even keeled in an argument. However, most people are not. As for myself, there are certain topics that I can feel my heart race. This makes your arguments weaker, makes you more defensive, and makes you more likely to fall into rhetorical traps.
Although righteous indignation has its place, ask yourself, how often has the person who lost their temper made the stronger augment?
Usually, Never. You are just dumbfounded on how many points you forgot to make or how silly you looked.
Regularly hearing opposing views tends to desensitize you to losing your temper. You can far more effectively advocate a position. More importantly, you can arrive at the truth when you calmly can hear an opposing argument.